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  • What All Nurses Should Have

    What All Nurses Should Have

    As a nurse, it is essential to have personal items to take good care of yourself. It has been said that nurses are like military personnel; not only do they work under pressure, but they also undergo physical stress (mishaps and injuries) on duty. We could also quite possibly, compare the physical side of this job to that of an athlete. That is, a lot of them keep “playing” even when they are injured.

    Bring these items with you whenever you head out onto the field:

    • Lotion

    You will most likely be in a dirty environment that is filled with germs and dirt. You can prevent your skin from getting dry by bringing a lotion bottle. It is also best to bring an unscented lotion since scented lotions can cause allergies, especially when dealing with patients with sensitive skin.

    • Foot massager

    Heel pain is common in nurses since they spend much time on their feet. You can use a foot massager to relieve the tension in your feet and lessen any chances of developing heel pain. A reputable massage equipment company will offer quality and reliable products.  Also, bring an ice pack along; it will be needed for sore muscles.

    • Quality, long-lasting, coffee mug with lid

    Coffee keeps you going during your shift, but if you drink from a paper cup, it can leave stains on your uniform and make the coffee taste bad. Bring a quality coffee mug with a lid to keep your clothes from getting dirty or stained and, most importantly, to keep your coffee hot or cold (whatever way you like it!).

    • Compression socks

    For added protection, bring a pair of compression socks with you. You can try these out before using them during duty hours, so you can determine if they are comfortable or not. This also prevents any possible injury that may occur due to wearing the wrong socks.

    • Stress ball or worry stone

    Easily carried stress balls are helpful for nurses who need to relieve some stress. They can be used at work or even at home, wherever you feel stressed. Worry stones, on the other hand, are smooth rocks that have soothing properties. Rubbing the smooth surface gives a calming effect for those who worry too much, and it can even help you fall asleep. It’s a must-have if you feel anxious about work or family life.

    • Tissues and hand sanitizer (for easy access)

    You need these items at all times to prevent bacteria from spreading to patients and yourself. You can get these items in small travel packs.

    • Healthy snacks

    You don’t want to get caught out during your shift without snacks, especially if you feel weak or tired due to a lack of food. Choose foods that can give you lots of energy, but make sure they are healthy—you don’t want too much sugar! Foods like peanut butter and crackers, cereal bar, or trail mix are all great choices.

    What do nurses need most right now?

    During the COVID-19 pandemic, all nurses need more:

    1. Surgical masks
    2. N95 respirators
    3. Face/eye shields
    4. Gloves
    5. Cleaning supplies
    6. Hand sanitizers
    7. Viral testing swabs

    How do you thank a staff nurse?

    The best way to say thank you to a nurse or healthcare professional is to remember them!

    Nurses are some of the hardest working people in society; without their tireless work, many patients would not be able to receive treatment. One nurse said that there are certain things that he wished all people knew about being a nurse. Here are his thoughts on how you can thank a nurse and what they wish you knew:

    Nurses should never get taken for granted. This is probably true for any profession, but I think nurses get the short end of the stick sometimes because we typically don’t take up as much space or draw attention to ourselves like doctors do (most of the time). So make sure to always say hello and ask how we’re doing (and actually listen when we reply, don’t just pretend like you care and walk away).

    Another thing, every time I get into a patient’s room and introduce myself, I always hear some variation of the following: “what kind of doctor are you?” or “are you a nurse practitioner/physician assistant?” The answer is no. I am not any of those. We’re nurses. Please just call us by our name. Unless we go out of our way to tell you otherwise, assume we are nurses. Our degrees can be from less competitive programs, so it may take us longer to advance in our field, but that doesn’t make us any worse at what we do for your loved one here in the hospital with you today.

    When someone needs help, nursing students step up to the plate and give whatever resource they can to ensure the patient gets their care (and at great cost financially and emotionally for themselves). The nurse should be thanked for showing up every single day. We don’t get to pick our shifts, we take what is given to us. I’ve even had my name put on a cancellation list because someone else didn’t want the shift that was assigned (never mind that I was in school full time at the time so I couldn’t just drop everything for them if they called me in last minute or needed help with something outside of my scheduled hours). I’ve also worked in the ER where sometimes our days are booked solid from 6 am-6 pm without a break unless you count your meal breaks, which are at best 30 minutes long.

    It’s easy to forget that in addition to taking care of your loved one the nurse has other patients and families relying on them. We don’t get paid any extra when we have more than our fair share of work, there are just less nurses working in the hospital every day so it falls on us to do more work without being able to go home until all our tasks are completed for the day.

    The last thing that I want people to know about this profession is that no matter how long or short a shift might be, I always try my best, even if I’m not feeling well, or am extremely busy with other tasks, etc. Nurses will come up with creative ways to make sure you get your medications on time or help you to the restroom and do it safely without hurting yourself in the process. It’s actually pretty amazing but we don’t get enough credit for all that we do. I just want people to know that when you see a nurse, whether it be your nurse or someone else’s, thank them for their work. It makes our day go just a little bit smoother.”

    What every nurse should have in their bag

    1. Stethoscope
    2. Books
    3. Scissors and Micropore Medical Tape
    4. Lotion and Hand Sanitizer
    5. Six saline flushes
    6. Retractable pens
    7. Sanitary items – gauze, sterilized mask and gloves, cotton balls
    8. OTC pharmacy items (cold medicines, ibuprofen, and other emergency meds)
    9. Small notebook – for taking notes from doctors and observations of your patients.
    10. Thermometer
    11. Tongue depressor
    12. Tourniquet
    13. BP apparatus
    14. Watch with seconds hand

  • Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

    Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

    Healthy relationships include respect from both sides. The best way to communicate boundaries with one another is with compassion, understanding, and respect for each other’s expectations. Having respect each time we communicate will ultimately make any relationship healthier and stronger.

    What are the 3 steps to setting boundaries?

    1. Challenge Your Guilt.
    2. Identify Your Barriers and Fears.
    3. Make Rules for Yourself.

    Understand that:

    • Boundaries have nothing to do with love
    • Boundaries are a peaceable thing
    • Boundaries are basic principles you identify for yourself

    What are examples of healthy boundaries?

    Boundaries have nothing to do with how much I love someone but more about whether I love myself enough to express my needs in a healthy way.

    Many adult children are emotionally fused with their parents. Parents are the primary source of our adult identity. If you had an unmanageable childhood, chances are that yours is not very clear. When someone is emotionally fused with another person, they have difficulty drawing boundaries between themselves and others. As a result, they give too much and take too little. Understanding the need for boundaries is one of the keys to breaking free from your family of origin and developing a healthier relationship with them (and yourself).

    Most people struggling with boundary issues tend to be those who experienced alcoholic or addictive behaviors in their family of origin. Therefore, it was not unusual for them to take on the addictive behavior of a parent or sibling, whether it was drugs, alcohol, compulsive working out at the gym, or overeating.

    How do you know if you have difficulty with boundaries? Look at your family of origin. Did you have to take care of your parents, for instance?

    Think about boundaries in your current relationships. Do you find yourself giving too much and demanding little in return? Do you feel guilty when you say no? Do others tell you that they don’t know where they stand with you because “you are all over the map?”

    Key components to having healthy boundaries:

    • Know your values and live by them

    You may have gotten away with being “pleasers” all of your life, but you must be true to yourself if you want a fulfilling relationship with others. Ask yourself, what is important in my life? What do I need to do to take care of myself? Set your limits. If you don’t tell others what you want or need, how do they know what to do for you? The only way someone will know is if you tell them! It does not mean that people will automatically give it, but at least the opportunity exists. 

    • Know when enough is enough

    When someone is emotionally fused with you, they will try to get their needs met by leaning on you. It may feel good for a moment, but it doesn’t work in the long run. You end up resenting them, and they become angry because of your “no.” Have compassion for yourself. Boundary issues arise when we have not taken care of ourselves or allowed ourselves to become emotionally suffocated. When you know that someone is trying to manipulate your feelings, tell them “No” and walk away. If it’s not good for you, then it doesn’t feel right! 

    • Practice detachment

    Detachment does not mean that you are dissociated from the situation or person but rather that you allow yourself to step back and examine the situation. When we become too emotionally entangled, it becomes difficult to be objective and make sound decisions.

    If you struggle with setting boundaries, remember that you cannot control what others do – whether it is giving back or withdrawing from you. You can only control how you react. When we strengthen ourselves and practice the above steps, it becomes easier to let go of the fear that others will leave us when we speak up for ourselves. You can learn to trust that what is in your best interest will be in their best interest too! (Adapted from The Wizard of Oz and other Narcissists)

    What are examples of emotional boundaries?

    When family members get together, sometimes those personal boundaries can be blurred. We may feel as though we need to overshare or allow others to disrespect us. Healthy boundaries in family relationships are important because it respects yourself and the people around you.

    When we set up healthy boundaries, we give ourselves permission to protect ourselves and say no without feeling guilty or selfish.

    Here are some tips to help with setting boundaries in your family relationships:

    Clearly identify your boundary

    Make sure you know exactly what it is that you want to communicate to the person about their behavior and be able to express the boundary specifically.

    Be straight forward

    Don’t beat around the bush or sugar coat; just say it straight out.

    Don’t apologize or give long explanations

    Just state the boundary in a simple sentence without any “ifs”, “ands”, or “buts”.

    Use a calm and polite tone

    The more upset you are, the less likely you’ll be taken seriously.

    Start with tighter boundaries

    It’s easier to go from no boundaries to a little boundary. Make small changes before you make drastic changes.

    Address boundary violations early

    Address the problem as soon as it happens, if not sooner. If you don’t address the issue right away, it only worsens and starts to feel natural.

    Don’t make it personal

    When you set your boundaries around someone else’s choices, you don’t have to take responsibility for their choices.

    Respect yourself

    Enough that you won’t allow others to treat you poorly or disrespect your privacy.  You can set healthy boundaries with everyone around you by being honest and respectful about what you expect from them.